Carighan

Why not, if I may ask?

This begs the question how I'd negatively assert outcomes and efforts if I am not to use negative language to describe it lest it'd be cruel.

Did you accidentally reply to the wrong post? I said something about word use and language, not about judgement and observations or decisions.

Yeah exactly, the mentioned words like 'stupid' or 'lazy' aren't exclusive to describing neurodivergency at all. In fact I'd argue that's a tiny minority of their use.